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Texting generation not comfortable with boomers” flare for talking on phone

Washington, Aug 8 (ANI): With the advent of e-mailing, followed by an explosion in texting, has brought a serious decline in minutes people spend talking on the phone, thereby creating new tensions between baby boomers and millennials — those in their teens, 20s and early 30s.

Nearly all age groups are spending less time talking on the phone; boomers in their mid-50s and early 60s are the only ones still yakking as they used to decaded earlier.

But the fall of the call is driven by 18- to 34-year-olds, whose average monthly voice minutes have plunged from about 1,200 to 900 in the past two years, according to research by Nielsen.

Texting among 18- to 24-year-olds has more than doubled in the same period, from an average of 600 messages a month two years ago to more than 1,400 texts a month.

Young people say they avoid voice calls because the immediacy of a phone call strips them of the control that they have over the arguably less-intimate pleasures of texting, e-mailing, Facebooking or tweeting.

They even complain that phone calls are by their nature impolite, more of an interruption than the blip of an arriving text.

Kevin Loker, 20, a rising junior at George Mason University, said he and his school friends rarely just call someone, for fear of being seen as rude or intrusive.

In fact, they first text to make an appointment to talk.

“They”ll write, ”Can I call you at such-and-such time?” People want to be polite. I feel like, in general, people my age are not as quick on their feet to just talk on the phone,” the Washington Post quoted Loker, executive editor of Connect2Mason.com, a student media site as saying.

The bias against unexpected phone calls stems in good part from the way texting and e-mail have conditioned young people to be cautious about how they communicate when they are not face to face, experts say.

Deborah Tannen, a linguistics professor at Georgetown University who studies how people converse in everyday life, said older generations misinterpret the way younger people use their cellphones.

“One student told me that it takes her days to call her parents back and the parents thought she was intentionally putting them off. But the parents didn”t get it. It”s the medium. With e-mails, you”re at the computer, writing a paper. With phone calls, it”s a dedicated block of time,” she said.

Tannen, 65, worries that texting may fall victim one day to the same neglect that phone calls now face.

Not only are people making fewer calls, but they are also having shorter conversations when they do call.

The average length of a cellphone call has dropped from 2.38 minutes in 1993 to 1.81 minutes in 2009, according to industry data.

And between 2005 and 2009, as the number of minutes people spent talking on cellphones inched up, the number of cellphone messages containing text or multimedia content ballooned by 1,840 percent.

“Here”s the issue: We don”t want to talk with each other most of the time,” said Naomi Baron, an American University linguistics professor who published a paper in June called ”Control Freaks”, dissecting how Americans communicate online and on mobile devices.”

The difference in communications preferences has created a palpable perception gap between young adults and their parents. (ANI)

Now, rent a friend for £6.50 an hour

London, July 19: Feeling lonely? Well, now you can hire a friend for just 6.50 pounds an hour, thanks to a US based site launched by an internet entrepreneur.
Scott Rosenbaum, 30, has a database of 218,000 men and women who members of his site Rent a Friend can hire "to hang out with, go to a movie or restaurant with", or be "someone to show you around an unfamiliar town".

The site already boasts 2,000 members, each paying up to 16 pounds a month to access the site.
And when they see a friend they like the look of, they can rent them for as little as 6.50 an hour.

Rosenbaum said he wanted to "go a step back" from dating sites and offer a service that was, in the words of his website "strictly platonic".

"No one was offering friendship,” the Telegraph quoted him as telling The Times.

The service is not just about getting people to meet up for a drink or a meal.

It lists a host of diverse activities that members might like to hire friends for, including "teaching manners", "snowboarding", "family functions" and just "hanging out". (ANI)

Women are most attractive at 31

London, July 19 (ANI): Women are at their attractive bets when they are 31—that’s the precise age when, according to a survey, they are considered most beautiful.

The poll of 2,000 men and women, commissioned by the shopping channel QVC to celebrate its Beauty Month, found that females in their early thirties are seen as more attractive than younger girls as they are more confident and stylish.

The research concluded that beauty is as much about personality as appearance.

It was defined as being confident by 70 per cent, having good looks by 67 per cent and being stylish by 47 per cent.

Almost two thirds of women surveyed – 63 per cent – agreed that "with age, comes beauty".

The same number said that as they get older, they care less about what others think of the way they look.

And 51 per cent said as they age they shed their insecurities and feel prettier.

The survey also found that men now spend more on their looks than women—their monthly bill including gym and hairdressers is 119 pounds, compared to girls”” 105 pounds.

"This research shows what many have always suspected – real beauty is about more than just good looks, but a combination of confidence, style and personality too,” the Scotsman quoted Sue Leeson, marketing director of QVC, as saying.

"We know that treating yourself to something that makes you feel good, experimenting with hairstyles, and knowing the make-up to wear that makes you look your best will enhance your confidence and make you feel at your peak,” she added. (ANI)